I read a news story yesterday about a 14-year-old girl who posted naked pictures of herself on MySpace because she hoped her boyfriend would see them. She was subsequently arrested and charged with possession and distribution of child pornography. If convicted, she faces up to 31 years in prison, and it's possible she'll have to register as a sex offender for the rest of her life.
I'm all for promoting the safety of children, but it seems odd to me that the authorities are using the laws designed to protect children to prosecute one as an adult for a crime against herself. It seems a little like arresting someone for stealing their own car. Hey! You moved your own car from it's normal parking place in the garage to a spot on the street--enjoy the next 5-15 years in person, dirtbag!
Instead of being so concerned about the new teen fad of 'sexting' (sex via text), maybe we should be more concerned about the stupid people those kids will grow up to be if we don't get our act together. Instead of punishing immodesty with prison, let's reward the behaviors we actually want to see more of. Spank a dog for peeing in the house, and you've got a confused dog who doesn't know where it's ok to pee. Reward a dog for peeing outside, and you've got a dog who stops peeing on your carpet.
It's really not that complicated.
6 comments:
I got it! Free minutes for every picture posted with clothing on??:)
I totally agree that we should focus more on rewarding good behaviors as a way to develop good behaviors. However, naked pics have two victims, even if the receiver enjoys getting the pic...so in my opinion some punishment is necessary so that the problem doesn't become even worse. Hmmm? Love, Mom
Does your theory of positive reinforcement work on cat barf too? Hah! Jan
Yeah. Why do French coaches take you out of the basketball game right after you do something right on the court?
Maybe that explains why I continue to put up bad shots and make a lot of turnovers!
Jabron.
You will find out exactly how difficult rewards and punishment are when you begin parenting. It is not simple...
I like the analogies, but remember, suicide is punishable in most states as well..
It isn't EASY, but it IS simple. I don't care if, just because I don't have kids, you discount what I say. I don't have a dog either, but I could still teach one to pee in your shoe twice a day.
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